| Family Violence has been and still is a major
problem in our society. It is primarily a problem of men physically abusing
their spouses, but also includes ex-spouses, girlfriends, ex-girlfriends
and children. Although not as frequent, violence by women against men is
also a problem. Family violence also includes restraining the victim; locking
doors; not letting the victim call for help; and similar actions.
The standard civil remedies of the past proved inadequate to deal with
this problem, so the “Protective Order” was created and a Protective Order
requires the abuser to stay away from and not bother or harass the victim.
Violation of a Protective Order is a crime and the abuser can be arrested
and since there is great pressure on the police and prosecutors to arrest
and prosecute abusers, family fights often lead to one or both of the
participants going to jail. Short term Protective Orders (30 days) are
often granted by Municipal Courts, but a regular Protective Order must
be granted by a District Judge and is in effect for two (2) years. An
abuser subject to a Protective Order is not allowed to have firearms.
Women are advised to call the police and have the abuser arrested for
assault as well as apply for a Protective Order. It is very helpful to
the attorney to make notes about the incident and take pictures of bruises,
torn clothing and broken furniture.
Men who are assaulted by women are advised to NOT DEFEND THEMSELVES
AND “GET OUT OF DODGE” AS FAST AS POSSIBLE!!!! Since so many
men commit family violence, the man is arrested most of the time, unless
he has more injuries and (quite often that does not help). “Slapping
her” or “holding her down” to defend yourself does not work.
If you are looking for an experienced family law attorney / lawyer including divorce, child support, adoption, paternity and domestic violence, we are well-prepared to help you. Call us at (972) 226-0042, or fill out the form on the
contact page to schedule an appointment with our attorney at our law office in Mesquite, Texas.
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